Can Parents & children Be Friends?
Here You'll surely get your answer for being friendly to parents!
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Basically, It depends on the relationship between child & parents because :
Parents need to maintain distance & set some parameters for a child. It is because if their child always gets what he/she demand for then definitely he/she would never accept the word "NO"
(Rejection will be very painful for him/her)
So, In this kind of relationship where child & parents maintain both Parents as well as Best Friend kind bond. Then they both should maintain some limits & should respect each other .
Parents are definitely a child's first best friend but it's also a truth that child can't accept them as a friend until they doesn't show some love & frank behavior.
#Things that a Child should remember if he wants his parents as friend :
*They are your parents. They will be very different from your schoolmate
*if they say no for something, respect and dropout your plans. (Ask later for it)
*As parents they will try to protect you. So never think they don't like your choice.
*Many time you'll think. They are not your best friend but
They have some responsibility as a parents so they will be angry on you, love you, respect you at a same time.
*Never keep secrets from your parents
*Never disrespect them as a friend even. Because it will be not good (seems as taking advantage)
*Make a Habit of Rejection
*As a parents they will try to make a never give up spirit in you
These things & habits will help you to be your parents best friend!
#Things a parents should remember if they want to be their child's best friend!
*Firstly, if he/she finds you as a friend. They'll freely tell you every secret. If you find something annoying then please don't be strict. Pretend as a friend and guide them for good.
*being a friend & parent at a same time is big deal for one. ! But you need to manage , not to shout.
*If your kid doesn't have rejection habit then identify it early and try to help him to learn that.
*If you are your child's friend, then understand his /her problem as friend and sort it out as a parents.
*Help your child to be independent and always explain him with love.
Being Parents is a hard job. So please never ever get hyper on your kid.
Because if a child find his /her parents as friend then he doesn't find much pressure on him.
Parents try to make his /her child independent & successful in future. So never think your parents bad. Try to understand them
Thank You
